Kali Rising: Pleasure, Power & a 10‑lb Home Birth in NYC ✨

Dear Reader,

What if pleasure in birth wasn’t always soft and serene—but sometimes wild, roaring, and full of fire?​

In our latest Orgasmic Birth Podcast episode, Genevieve joins Debra to share the unforgettable story of birthing her 10‑pound baby at home in New York City—guided not just by sensuality, but by the fierce, transformative energy of Kali.​

Throughout her pregnancy, Genevieve and her partner made daily pleasure a non‑negotiable, enjoying juicy, connected sex and a deeply intimate bond that carried them into birth. She expected a calm, meditative “orgasmic birth in the tub”… but when her baby began to descend, a completely different power came through—rage, vocalization, dancing, drumming, and an almost ecstatic relationship with intensity.​

In our conversation, Genevieve shares:
🌶️ How preparing for quiet bliss opened the door to a wilder birth that still felt deeply pleasurable and right for her.​
💓 Why daily sex, clitoral touch in labor, and pausing as her baby crowned may have supported her body to stretch and birth a 10‑pound baby without tearing.​
🔥 The moment she realized pleasure can be screaming, swaying, speaking in tongues, and claiming her full power—not just soft sighs in the birth pool.​

We also talk about the midwifery care that held her through meconium, a stuck shoulder, and a blue‑toned baby—without ever stripping away her sense of safety, choice, or sovereignty. This is a story of devotion to presence, partnership, and pleasure, even when birth takes a very different path than you imagined.​

🎧 Listen now to “Kali Rising: Pleasure, Power & Birth in NYC with Genevieve” on our blog and feel your own courage to meet birth exactly as it comes—soft, fierce, or both.​

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Love and pleasure,
Debra

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Debra Pascali-Bonaro

Debra Pascali-Bonaro is a world-renowned inspirational speaker, podcaster, filmmaker, doula trainer, childbirth educator, and author. Debra’s podcast, Orgasmic Birth heals barriers and opens the door to share secrets to more love and intimacy in birth and parenting. She brings together her passion for pleasure in every aspect of life with her Jersey-Girl attitude of talking about what no one is talking about! Debra is a mother, grandmother and featured expert in parenting journals and media around the world. Debra is also Co-Chair of the International Childbirth Initiative and Chair of the International MotherBaby Childbirth Initiative both of which promote safe, respectful maternity care. She is a Lamaze International childbirth educator, birth and postpartum doula trainer with DONA International, Director of the award-winning documentary Orgasmic Birth: The Best-Kept Secret and co-writer of “Orgasmic Birth: Your Guide to a Safe, Satisfying and Pleasurable Birth”, Author of The Ultimate Guide To Sex After Baby: Secrets to Love and Intimacy and the Founder & President of the revolutionary online childbirth class Pleasurable Birth Essentials which prepares expectant mothers, fathers, and partners to be positively prepared for birth and focuses on the intimate and sacred nature of birth. Debra’s passion comes from her over 30 years of working with women, men, midwives, doulas, physicians and nurses in over 40 countries bringing comfort, love, and pleasure to birth and life!